Fruity rumpus asshole factory full#

It's not like he's gay or uninterested in women in general either.

On top of that he's always so emotionally distant as a parent that I suspect he never even wanted to have a family, other than 'that's just what respectable men are supposed to do' according to society (not white or Christian btw).

Fruity rumpus asshole factory full#

Like he's always finding reasons to slag off on her, like calling her fat or a useless cripple, uncouth when it's the total opposite, mocking her side of the family just because they came from a poorer background, accusing her of being disrespectful because she saved him from getting swindled multiple times, a wasteful spendthrift when she's by far the more financially responsible one, and goes out of her way to avoid spending his money like some of my aunts and his friends' wives do, or selfish and lazy because she chose to be a stay-home mom and take care of us and maintain the house rather than work full time when money isn't even an issue, or even spreading blatantly false rumors about her, and so on. He has a stable middle class job, pays the bills and puts food on the table, doesn't indulge in any expensive vices, and I'm fairly certain he isn't actually cheating or keeping a mistress (yet).īut he's constantly, constantly talking shit about my mom behind closed doors. He's not physically or sexually abusive or anything. And the worst thing is it's really petty and first-world babby problems of me, because honestly plenty would kill to have a father like him. In other news, people who invent cures to diseases and charge insane costs. It'd probably be the implementers to profit from such a breakthrough. >I thought you were calling that anon a fool that the developers of such a technology would be rich. I'm not talking 'plug in a cord and zap him in the face', I'm talking 'let's edit this artwork pixel by pixel'. I know in practice it would be very complex and probably impractical due to time and cost, but that doesn't mean it can't be done. If people had the knowledge, determination, technology and money then they could make millions of small adjustments to these parts, therefore altering the brain's function. A brain is, when you get to a certain level, just a shitton of neurons, synapses, neurotransmitters and some other basic parts. I have the belief that a brain is just a natural, insanely complex computer. You are the gatekeeper for your own life.ĭepends on what your view of the human brain is. It might cause you some problems and some stress, but you are the ultimate arbiter of your life, and their continued involvement in your life is only with your permission. That even if you don't cut them off, it is by your choice that you don't and not because they have any power over you. But maybe it'll give you some inner comfort/satisfaction just to know that you could.

If they don't respect your boundaries or your decisions, it doesn't matter what their relationship to you is, or how much authority they have with you, or even whether it would cause a 'breach in the family.' You do not have to allow them to be part of your life unless you choose to, and no rational person in the world would ever judge you harshly for cutting someone out of your life who doesn't respect your boundaries-even if the people you're cutting out of your life are family.Īnd I know it's always going to be more complicated than that, and maybe you don't want to go that far yet-that's fine, you don't have to. That being said, even if it's a whole branch of the family or even the community and even if they are authority figures over you, you get to choose who is part of your life and who isn't. Family stuff is tough, and there's always a feeling of obligation to stick together even when you're being wronged. I understand why that would be difficult on you.